Moed Katan 24
ΧΦΌΦ°Χ’ΦΈΧ ΧΦ΄ΧΧ ΦΌΦ΅ΧΧΦΌ Χ¨Φ·ΧΦΌΦ΄Χ ΧΧΦΉΧΦΈΧ ΦΈΧ ΧΦ΄Χ©ΦΌΧΦ°ΧΧΦΌΧΦ΅Χ: ΧΦ΅Χ©Χ ΧΦ²ΧΦ΅ΧΧΧΦΌΧͺ ΧΦΌΦ°Χ©ΧΦ·ΧΦΌΦΈΧͺ ΧΧΦΉ ΧΦ΅ΧΧ ΧΦ²ΧΦ΅ΧΧΧΦΌΧͺ ΧΦΌΦ°Χ©ΧΦ·ΧΦΌΦΈΧͺ? ΧΦ²ΧΦ·Χ¨ ΧΦ΅ΧΧΦΌ: ΧΦ΅ΧΧ ΧΦ²ΧΦ΅ΧΧΧΦΌΧͺ ΧΦΌΦ°Χ©ΧΦ·ΧΦΌΦΈΧͺ.
Rabbi YoαΈ₯anan asked of Shmuel: Is there some mourning on Shabbat or is there no mourning on Shabbat at all? He said to him: There is no mourning on Shabbat at all.
ΧΦΈΧͺΦ°ΧΦ΄Χ Χ¨Φ·ΧΦΌΦΈΧ Φ·Χ Χ§Φ·ΧΦΌΦ΅ΧΧΦΌ ΧΦΌΦ°Χ¨Φ·Χ Χ€ΦΌΦΈΧ€ΦΌΦΈΧ ΧΦ°Χ§ΦΈΧΦΈΧΦ°Χ¨Φ΄Χ ΧΦ΄Χ©ΦΌΧΦ°ΧΦ΅ΧΧΦΌ ΧΦΌΦ΄Χ©ΧΦ°ΧΧΦΌΧΦ΅Χ: ΧΦΈΧΦ΅Χ Χ©ΧΦΆΧ©ΦΌΧΦ΄ΧΧΦΌΦ΅Χ©Χ ΧΦ΄ΧΦΌΦΈΧͺΧΦΉ ΧΦΌΦ΄ΧΧΦ΅Χ ΧΦΆΧΦ°ΧΧΦΉ β ΧΦ·ΧΦΌΦΈΧΧ ΧΦ΄ΧΧͺΦΈΧ. ΧΦ²ΧΦ·Χ¨ ΧΦ΅ΧΧΦΌ Χ¨Φ·Χ Χ€ΦΌΦΈΧ€ΦΌΦΈΧ: ΧΦΈΧ‘ΧΦΌΧ¨ ΧΦ΄ΧͺΦΌΦ°ΧΦ·Χ¨, ΧΦΌΧΦ΄Χ©ΦΌΧΦ°ΧΦ΅ΧΧΦΌ ΧΦΌΦ°Χ¨Φ·ΧΦΌΦ΄Χ ΧΧΦΉΧΦΈΧ ΦΈΧ ΧΦ΄ΧͺΦΌΦ°ΧΦ·Χ¨,
The Sages sat before Rav Pappa and said in the name of Shmuel: A mourner who engaged in sexual relations during his days of mourning is liable to receive the death penalty at the hand of Heaven. Rav Pappa said to them: It was said that sexual relations are prohibited, but not that the offender is guilty of a capital crime. And the ruling was said in the name of Rabbi YoαΈ₯anan, and not in the name of Shmuel.
ΧΦ°ΧΦ΄Χ Χ©ΧΦ°ΧΦ΄ΧΧ’ΦΈΧ ΧΦ°ΧΧΦΌ ΧΦ΄Χ©ΦΌΧΦ°ΧΦ΅ΧΧΦΌ ΧΦΌΦ΄Χ©ΧΦ°ΧΧΦΌΧΦ΅Χ, ΧΦΈΧΦ΄Χ Χ©ΧΦ°ΧΦ΄ΧΧ’Φ· ΧΦ°ΧΧΦΌ: ΧΦΈΧΦ·Χ¨ Χ¨Φ·Χ ΧͺΦΌΦ·ΧΦ°ΧΦ΄ΧΧ€ΦΈΧ ΧΦΌΦ·Χ¨ ΧΦ²ΧΦ΄ΧΧΦ΄Χ ΧΦΈΧΦ·Χ¨ Χ©ΧΦ°ΧΧΦΌΧΦ΅Χ: ΧΦΈΧΦ΅Χ Χ©ΧΦΆΧΦΌΦΉΧ Χ€ΦΌΦ΅Χ¨Φ·Χ’ ΧΦ°Χ©ΧΦΆΧΦΌΦΉΧ Χ€ΦΌΦ΅ΧΧ¨Φ·Χ β ΧΦ·ΧΦΌΦΈΧΧ ΧΦ΄ΧΧͺΦΈΧ, Χ©ΧΦΆΧ ΦΌΦΆΧΦ±ΧΦ·Χ¨: Χ΄Χ¨ΦΈΧΧ©ΧΦ΅ΧΧΦΆΧ ΧΦ·Χ ΧͺΦΌΦ΄Χ€Φ°Χ¨ΦΈΧ’ΧΦΌ ΧΦΌΧΦ΄ΧΦ°ΧΦ΅ΧΧΦΆΧ ΧΦΉΧ ΧͺΦ΄Χ€Φ°Χ¨ΧΦΉΧΧΦΌ ΧΦ°ΧΦΉΧ ΧͺΦΈΧΧΦΌΧͺΧΦΌ ΧΦ°ΧΧΦΉΧ³Χ΄, ΧΦΈΧ ΧΦ·ΧΦ΅Χ¨ Χ©ΧΦΆΧΦΌΦΉΧ Χ€ΦΌΦ΅Χ¨Φ·Χ’ ΧΦ°Χ©ΧΦΆΧΦΌΦΉΧ Χ€ΦΌΦ΅ΧΧ¨Φ·Χ β ΧΦ·ΧΦΌΦΈΧΧ ΧΦ΄ΧΧͺΦΈΧ.
And if you heard a statement on this issue in the name of Shmuel, then you heard as follows: Rav TaαΈ₯lifa bar Avimi said that Shmuel said: A mourner who did not let his hair grow wild and did not rend his garments is liable to receive the death penalty at the hand of Heaven, as it is stated following the deaths of Nadab and Abihu concerning the surviving sons of Aaron: βLet not the hair of your heads go loose, neither rend your clothes, that you not dieβ (Leviticus 10:6). They were instructed not to mourn, so as not to interfere with the dedication of the Tabernacle. From here it may be deduced that any other mourner who did not let his hair grow wild or rend his clothes is liable to receive the death penalty.
ΧΦΈΧΦ·Χ¨ Χ¨Φ·Χ€Φ°Χ¨ΦΈΧ ΧΦΌΦ·Χ¨ Χ€ΦΌΦΈΧ€ΦΌΦΈΧ, ΧͺΦΌΦΈΧ ΦΈΧ ΧΦΌΦ°ΧΦ΅ΧΦΆΧ Χ¨Φ·ΧΦΌΦΈΧͺΦ΄Χ: ΧΦΈΧΦ΅Χ ΧΦΈΧ‘ΧΦΌΧ¨ ΧΦ°Χ©ΧΦ·ΧΦΌΦ΅Χ©Χ ΧΦ΄ΧΦΌΦΈΧͺΧΦΉ ΧΦΌΦ΄ΧΧΦ΅Χ ΧΦΆΧΦ°ΧΧΦΉ, ΧΦΌΧΦ·Χ’Φ²Χ©ΧΦΆΧ ΧΦΌΦ°ΧΦΆΧΦΈΧ Χ©ΧΦΆΧ©ΦΌΧΦ΄ΧΧΦΌΦ΅Χ©Χ ΧΦ΄ΧΦΌΦΈΧͺΧΦΉ ΧΦΌΦ΄ΧΧΦ΅Χ ΧΦΆΧΦ°ΧΧΦΉ, ΧΦ°Χ©ΧΦΈΧΦ°ΧΧΦΌ ΧΦ²ΧΦ΄ΧΧ¨Φ΄ΧΧ ΧΦΆΧͺ ΧΦΌΦ°ΧΦ΄ΧΦΌΦΈΧΧͺΧΦΉ.
Rafram bar Pappa said: A Sage taught in Evel Rabbati, a separate tractate devoted to the halakhot of mourning: A mourner is prohibited from engaging in sexual relations during his days of mourning. There was an incident with one who engaged in sexual relations during his days of mourning and he was punished, for after his death pigs dragged away his corpse.
ΧΦΈΧΦ·Χ¨ Χ©ΧΦ°ΧΧΦΌΧΦ΅Χ: Χ€ΦΌΦ·ΧΦ·Χ΄Χ ΧΧΦΉΧΦΈΧ, Χ ΦΆΧͺΦΆΧ΄Χ¨ Χ¨Φ°Χ©ΧΧΦΌΧͺ.
Shmuel offered a mnemonic device with regard to the observance of mourning rites on Shabbat, and said: Peh, αΈ₯et, zayin are obligatory. These letters combine to create a mnemonic standing for: Uncovering the head [periat rosh], reversing the torn garment [αΈ₯azarat kera], and standing the bed upright [zekifat hamitta]. However, nun, tav, reish, which stand for: Wearing shoes [neβilat hasandal], marital relations [tashmish hamitta], and hand washing [reαΈ₯itzat yadayim], are optional.
Χ€ΦΌΦ°Χ¨Φ΄ΧΧ’Φ·Χͺ ΧΦΈΧ¨ΦΉΧΧ©Χ, ΧΦ²ΧΦΈΧ¨Φ·Χͺ Χ§ΦΆΧ¨Φ·Χ’ ΧΦ·ΧΦ²ΧΧΦΉΧ¨ΦΈΧΧ, ΧΦ°Χ§Φ΄ΧΧ€Φ·Χͺ ΧΦ·ΧΦΌΦ΄ΧΦΌΦΈΧ β ΧΧΦΉΧΦΈΧ. Χ Φ°Χ’Φ΄ΧΧΦ·Χͺ ΧΦ·Χ‘ΦΌΦ·Χ Φ°ΧΦΌΦΈΧ, ΧͺΦΌΦ·Χ©ΧΦ°ΧΦ΄ΧΧ©Χ ΧΦ·ΧΦΌΦ΄ΧΦΌΦΈΧ, Χ¨Φ°ΧΦ΄ΧΧ¦Φ·Χͺ ΧΦΈΧΦ·ΧΦ΄Χ ΧΦ°Χ¨Φ·ΧΦ°ΧΦ·ΧΦ΄Χ ΧΦΌΦ°ΧΦ·ΧΦΌΦ΄ΧΧ Χ’Φ·Χ¨Φ°ΧΦ΄ΧΧͺ β Χ¨Φ°Χ©ΧΧΦΌΧͺ. ΧΦ°Χ¨Φ·Χ ΧΦΈΧΦ·Χ¨: ΧΦ·Χ£ Χ€ΦΌΦ°Χ¨Φ΄ΧΧ’Φ·Χͺ ΧΦΈΧ¨ΦΉΧΧ©Χ Χ¨Φ°Χ©ΧΧΦΌΧͺ.
This is explained: Uncovering the head, i.e., removing the head covering usually worn by a mourner; reversing the tear to the back, so that it will not be visible; and standing the bed upright in the usual position, so that it is not overturned, are all obligatory for the mourner to uphold in honor of Shabbat. However, wearing shoes, engaging in sexual relations, and washing oneβs hands and feet in hot water in the evening are optional activities on Shabbat. If a mourner wishes to refrain from them he may do so. And Rav said: Uncovering the head is also an optional activity.
ΧΦΌΧ©ΧΦ°ΧΧΦΌΧΦ΅Χ, ΧΦ·ΧΧ Χ©ΧΦ°Χ ΦΈΧ Χ Φ°Χ’Φ΄ΧΧΦ·Χͺ ΧΦ·Χ‘ΦΌΦ·Χ Φ°ΧΦΌΦΈΧ ΧΦΌΦ΄Χ¨Φ°Χ©ΧΧΦΌΧͺ β ΧΦΌΦ°ΧΦΈΧΧ ΧΦΌΧΦΌΧΦΌΦ΅Χ Χ’ΦΈΧΦ°ΧΦΈΧ Χ’Φ²ΧΦ΄ΧΧΦ΄Χ ΧΦΌΦ°Χ‘ΦΈΧΦ°ΧΧΦ΄Χ ΧΦ°Χ‘ΦΈΧΧ Φ·ΧΦ°ΧΧΧΦΌ. Χ€ΦΌΦ°Χ¨Φ΄ΧΧ’Φ·Χͺ ΧΦΈΧ¨ΦΉΧΧ©Χ Χ ΦΈΧΦ΅Χ, ΧΦΈΧΧ ΧΦΌΧΦΌΧΦΌΦ΅Χ Χ’ΦΈΧΦ°ΧΦΈΧ Χ’Φ²ΧΦ΄ΧΧΦ΄Χ ΧΦΌΦ΄ΧΦ°ΧΦ·ΧΦΌΧΦΌ Χ¨Φ΅ΧΧ©ΧΦ·ΧΦ°ΧΧΧΦΌ!
The Gemara asks: According to Shmuel, what is different about wearing shoes that it is optional? His reasoning presumably is that not everyone wears shoes at all times, and therefore not wearing shoes will not be perceived by others as a sign of mourning. If so, the same thing may be said about uncovering the head also, i.e., not everyone uncovers his head at all times, as some people always walk around with their heads wrapped. This, too, should not be seen as a clear display of mourning, and therefore uncovering oneβs head should also be treated as optional.
Χ©ΧΦ°ΧΧΦΌΧΦ΅Χ ΧΦ°ΧΦ·Χ’Φ°ΧΦ΅ΧΧΦΌ, ΧΦΌΦ°ΧΦΈΧΦ·Χ¨ Χ©ΧΦ°ΧΧΦΌΧΦ΅Χ: ΧΦΌΧΧ Χ§ΦΆΧ¨Φ·Χ’ Χ©ΧΦΆΧΦ΅ΧΧ ΧΦΉ ΧΦΌΦ΄Χ©ΧΦ°Χ’Φ·Χͺ ΧΦ΄ΧΧΦΌΧΦΌΧ β ΧΦ΅ΧΧ ΧΦΉ Χ§ΦΆΧ¨Φ·Χ’. ΧΦ°ΧΧΧ Χ’Φ²ΧΦ΄ΧΧ€ΦΈΧ Χ©ΧΦΆΧΦ΅ΧΧ ΦΈΧΦΌ ΧΦΌΦ·Χ’Φ²ΧΦ΄ΧΧ€Φ·Χͺ ΧΦ΄Χ©ΧΦ°ΧΦ°Χ’Φ΅ΧΧΦ΄ΧΧ β ΧΦ΅ΧΧ ΦΈΧΦΌ Χ’Φ²ΧΦ΄ΧΧ€ΦΈΧ. ΧΦ·ΧΦ°ΧΦ΅Χ Χ¨Φ·Χ Χ Φ·ΧΦ°ΧΦΈΧ Χ’Φ·Χ ΧΦΌΧΦΌΧΦΌΦ΅Χ ΧΦΌΦ°ΧΦ΄ΧΧ§Φ°Χ ΦΈΧ.
The Gemara answers: Shmuel conforms to his standard line of reasoning, for Shmuel said: Any rending of garments that is not done at the time of the most intense grief, i.e., the time of death, is not considered proper rending of garments. And any wrapping of the head that is not done in the manner of the wrapping of the Ishmaelites, who wrap their heads on all sides, is not considered proper wrapping. Since Shmuel requires that a mourner wrap his head in this special manner, one who acts in this way on Shabbat openly displays his mourning, as people do not ordinarily wrap their heads in this manner. What is this wrapping? Rav NaαΈ₯man demonstrated the procedure by covering up his face to the sides of the beard, leaving only the center of his face exposed.
ΧΦΈΧΦ·Χ¨ Χ¨Φ·ΧΦΌΦ΄Χ ΧΦ·Χ’Φ²Χ§ΦΉΧ ΧΦΈΧΦ·Χ¨ Χ¨Φ·ΧΦΌΦ΄Χ ΧΧΦΉΧΦΈΧ ΦΈΧ: ΧΦΉΧ Χ©ΧΦΈΧ ΧΦΌ ΧΦΆΧΦΌΦΈΧ Χ©ΧΦΆΧΦ΅ΧΧ ΧΧΦΉ ΧΦ΄Χ Φ°Χ’ΦΈΧΦ΄ΧΧ ΧΦΌΦ°Χ¨Φ·ΧΦ°ΧΦΈΧΧ, ΧΦ²ΧΦΈΧ ΧΦ΅Χ©Χ ΧΧΦΉ ΧΦ΄Χ Φ°Χ’ΦΈΧΦ΄ΧΧ ΧΦΌΦ°Χ¨Φ·ΧΦ°ΧΦΈΧΧ β ΧΦ΄Χ Φ°Χ’ΦΈΧΦΈΧΧ ΧΧΦΉΧΦ΄ΧΧΦ΄ΧΧ Χ’ΦΈΧΦΈΧΧ.
Rabbi Yaβakov said that Rabbi YoαΈ₯anan said: They taught that a mourner is required to remove his head covering on Shabbat only when he has no shoes on his feet, so that he not appear too obviously to be in mourning. But if he has shoes on his feet, then his shoes prove that he is not observing the rites of mourning on Shabbat.
ΧΦΌΧΧ Χ§ΦΆΧ¨Φ·Χ’ Χ©ΧΦΆΧΦ΅ΧΧ ΧΦΉ ΧΦΌΦ΄Χ©ΧΦ°Χ’Φ·Χͺ ΧΦ΄ΧΧΦΌΧΦΌΧ ΧΦ΅ΧΧ ΧΦΉ Χ§ΦΆΧ¨Φ·Χ’ β ΧΦ°ΧΦΈΧ ΧΦ²ΧΦ·Χ¨ΧΦΌ ΧΦ΅ΧΧΦΌ ΧΦ΄Χ©ΧΦ°ΧΧΦΌΧΦ΅Χ: Χ ΦΈΧ Χ Φ·Χ€Φ°Χ©ΧΦ΅ΧΧΦΌ ΧΦΌΦ°Χ¨Φ·Χ, Χ§Φ°Χ¨Φ·Χ’ Χ’Φ²ΧΦ΅ΧΧΦΌ ΧͺΦΌΦ°Χ¨Φ΅ΧΧ‘Φ·Χ¨ ΧΦΈΧ Φ΅Χ. ΧΦ²ΧΦ·Χ¨: ΧΦ²ΧΦ·Χ ΧΦΌΦ·ΧΦ°Χ¨ΦΈΧ ΧΦΌΦ·ΧΦ²ΧΦΈΧ ΧΦ΄Χ‘Φ°ΧͺΦΌΦ°Χ€Φ΅ΧΧ ΦΈΧ ΧΦ΄ΧΧ ΦΌΦ΅ΧΧΦΌ. ΧΦ²ΧΦ·Χ¨ ΧΦ΅ΧΧΦΌ ΧΦ°Χ¨Φ·ΧΦΌΦ΄Χ ΧΧΦΉΧΦΈΧ ΦΈΧ: Χ ΦΈΧ Χ Φ·Χ€Φ°Χ©ΧΦ΅ΧΧΦΌ ΧΦΌΦ°Χ¨Φ·ΧΦΌΦ΄Χ ΧΦ²Χ Φ΄ΧΧ ΦΈΧ. Χ§Φ°Χ¨Φ·Χ’ Χ’Φ²ΧΦ΅ΧΧΦΌ ΧͺΦΌΦ°ΧΦ΅ΧΧ‘Φ·Χ¨ ΧΦ΄Χ¦Φ°ΧΦ°ΧΦ΅Χ ΧΦ΅ΧΦΈΧͺΦΈΧ. ΧΦ²ΧΦ·Χ¨: ΧΦ²ΧΦ·Χ ΧΦΌΦ·ΧΦ°Χ¨ΦΈΧ ΧΦΌΦ·ΧΦ²ΧΦΈΧ ΧΦ΄Χ‘Φ°ΧͺΦΌΦ°Χ€Φ΅ΧΧ ΦΈΧ ΧΦ΄ΧΧ ΦΌΦ΅ΧΧΦΌ!
The Gemara returns to Shmuelβs statement that any rending of garments that is not done at the time of most intense grief and pain is not considered proper rending of garments. The Gemara poses a question: But when they said to Shmuel that Rav had passed away, he rent twelve garments on account of him, and said: The man of whom I was in fear, owing to his great learning, has gone and died. Similarly, when they told Rabbi YoαΈ₯anan that Rabbi αΈ€anina had passed away, he rent thirteen expensive wool [mileta] garments [itztelei] on account of him, and said: The man of whom I was in fear has gone. When each of these Sages received the news that their distinguished colleague had died, it was no longer the time of the most intense grief, i.e., the time of death, and yet they rent their garments.
Χ©ΧΦΈΧΧ Φ΅Χ Χ¨Φ·ΧΦΌΦΈΧ Φ·Χ, ΧΦΌΦ°ΧΦ΅ΧΧΦΈΧ ΧΦΌΦ°ΧΦΉΧ Χ©ΧΦ·Χ’Φ°ΧͺΦΌΦΈΧ ΧΦ·ΧΦ°ΧΦΌΦ°Χ¨Φ΄Χ Χ©ΧΦ°ΧΦ·Χ’Φ°ΧͺΦΌΦ·ΧΦ°ΧΧΧΦΌ β ΧΦΌΦ΄Χ©ΧΦ°Χ’Φ·Χͺ ΧΦ΄ΧΧΦΌΧΦΌΧ ΧΦΌΦΈΧΦ΅Χ.
The Gemara answers: The Sages are different. Since their teachings are mentioned all the time, every time they are mentioned is like the time of most intense grief, as the pain over their death is once again renewed.
ΧΦ²ΧΦ·Χ¨ ΧΦ΅ΧΧΦΌ Χ¨ΦΈΧΦ΄ΧΧ ΧΦΌΦ·Χ¨ ΧΦ·ΧΦΌΦΈΧ ΧΦ°Χ¨ΦΈΧΦΈΧ: ΧΦΈΧΦ·Χ¨ ΧͺΦΌΦ·ΧΦ°ΧΦ΄ΧΧΦ°ΧΦΈ Χ¨Φ·Χ Χ’Φ·ΧΦ°Χ¨ΦΈΧ, ΧͺΦΌΦ·Χ Φ°ΧΦΈΧ: ΧΦΈΧΦ΅Χ, ΧΦΌΧΧ Χ©ΧΦ΄ΧΦ°Χ’ΦΈΧ Χ§ΧΦΉΧ¨Φ°Χ’ΧΦΉ ΧΦ°Χ€ΦΈΧ ΦΈΧΧ, ΧΦ°ΧΦ΄Χ ΧΦΌΦΈΧ ΧΦ°ΧΦ·ΧΦ²ΧΦ΄ΧΧ£ β ΧΦ·ΧΦ°ΧΦ΄ΧΧ£ ΧΦ°Χ§ΧΦΉΧ¨Φ΅Χ’Φ·. ΧΦΌΦ°Χ©ΧΦ·ΧΦΌΦΈΧͺ, Χ§ΧΦΉΧ¨Φ°Χ’ΧΦΉ ΧΦ·ΧΦ²ΧΧΦΉΧ¨ΦΈΧΧ, ΧΦ°ΧΦ΄Χ ΧΦΌΦΈΧ ΧΦ°ΧΦ·ΧΦ²ΧΦ΄ΧΧ£ β ΧΦ·ΧΦ°ΧΦ΄ΧΧ£ ΧΦ°ΧΦ΅ΧΧ ΧΦΉ Χ§ΧΦΉΧ¨Φ΅Χ’Φ·!
Ravin bar Adda said to Rava: Your student, Rav Amram, said that it is taught in a baraita as follows: For all seven days of mourning, a mourner must keep the tear in his garment before him so that it will be seen. And if he comes to change clothing, he changes and rends the new garment. On Shabbat, he turns the tear to his back, and if he comes to change clothing, he changes but does not tear the second garment. From here it seems that there is an obligation to rend garments during the entire week of mourning, not only at the most intense moment of grief.
ΧΦΌΦ΄Χ ΧͺΦΌΦ·Χ Φ°ΧΦΈΧ ΧΦΈΧΦ΄ΧΧ, ΧΦΌΦ΄ΧΦ°ΧΧΦΉΧ ΧΦΈΧΦ΄ΧΧ ΧΦ°ΧΦ΄ΧΦΌΧΦΉ.
The Gemara answers: When that baraita is taught, it is referring to the specific case of rending oneβs garment in honor of his father or mother. Owing to the special honor due to oneβs parents, it is inappropriate for the child to wear a garment that is not torn. Consequently, if he changes clothing, he must tear the new garment, even if it is no longer the most intense time of grief.
ΧΧΦΉΧͺΦΈΧ Χ§Φ°Χ¨ΦΈΧ’Φ΄ΧΧ ΧΦ΄ΧͺΦ°ΧΦ·ΧΦ΄ΧΧ, ΧΧΦΉ ΧΦ΅ΧΧ ΧΦ΄ΧͺΦ°ΧΦ·ΧΦ΄ΧΧ? Χ€ΦΌΦ°ΧΦ΄ΧΧΦ΄Χ ΧΦΌΦ·ΧΦΌ ΧΦ²ΧΧΦΌΧΦΌ ΧΦΌΦ°Χ¨Φ·Χ ΧΧΦΉΧ©ΧΦ·Χ’Φ°ΧΦΈΧ ΧΦΌΧΦ·Χ¨ Χ§Φ·Χ€ΦΌΦΈΧ¨ΦΈΧ. ΧΦ·Χ ΧΦΈΧΦ·Χ¨: ΧΦ΅ΧΧ ΧΦ΄ΧͺΦ°ΧΦ·ΧΦ΄ΧΧ, ΧΦ°ΧΦ·Χ ΧΦΈΧΦ·Χ¨: ΧΦ΄ΧͺΦ°ΧΦ·ΧΦ΄ΧΧ.
The Gemara asks: Those additional tears that are made in honor of oneβs father or mother, may they be properly mended at the end of the sonβs period of mourning, or may they not be properly mended, like the tear made for oneβs father or mother at the most intense moment of grief? The Gemara answers: They disagree about this issue, the father of Rav Oshaya and bar Kappara. One said: They may not be mended, and one said: They may be mended.
ΧͺΦΌΦ΄Χ‘Φ°ΧͺΦΌΦ·ΧΦΌΦ΅ΧΧ ΧΦΌΦ·ΧΦ²ΧΧΦΌΧΦΌ ΧΦΌΦ°Χ¨Φ·Χ ΧΧΦΉΧ©ΧΦ·Χ’Φ°ΧΦΈΧ ΧΦΌΦ°ΧΦΈΧΦ·Χ¨ ΧΦ΅ΧΧ ΧΦ΄ΧͺΦ°ΧΦ·ΧΦ΄ΧΧ. ΧΦΌΦ°ΧΦΈΧΦ·Χ¨ Χ¨Φ·Χ ΧΧΦΉΧ©ΧΦ·Χ’Φ°ΧΦΈΧ: ΧΦ΅ΧΧ ΧΦ΄ΧͺΦ°ΧΦ·ΧΦ΄ΧΧ, ΧΦ΄ΧΦΌΦ·ΧΧ Χ©ΧΦ°ΧΦ΄ΧΧ’Φ· ΧΦ΅ΧΧΦΌ β ΧΦΈΧΧ ΧΦ΅ΧΦ²ΧΧΦΌΧΦΌ? ΧΦΈΧ, ΧΦ΄ΧΦΌΦ·Χ¨ Χ§Φ·Χ€ΦΌΦΈΧ¨ΦΈΧ Χ¨Φ·ΧΦΌΦ΅ΧΧΦΌ Χ©ΧΦ°ΧΦ΄ΧΧ’Φ· ΧΦ΅ΧΧΦΌ.
The Gemara comments: Conclude that it was Rav Oshayaβs father who said that such rents may not be properly mended, for Rav Oshaya said: Such rents may not be properly mended. From whom did he hear this halakha? Was it not from his father? The Gemara rejects this argument: No, this cannot be offered as a proof, as perhaps he heard it from bar Kappara, who was his teacher.
ΧΦΈΧΦ·Χ¨ Χ¨ΦΈΧΦΈΧ: ΧΦΈΧΦ΅Χ ΧΦ°ΧΦ·ΧΦΌΦ΅ΧΧ ΧΦΌΦ°ΧΧΦΌΧ Φ°Χ§Φ°ΧΦ΄Χ ΧΦΌΦ°ΧͺΧΦΉΧΦ° ΧΦΌΦ΅ΧΧͺΧΦΉ. ΧΦ·ΧΦΌΦΈΧΦ΅Χ ΧΦ·Χ©ΧΦ°ΧΦΌΦ°ΧΦ΅ΧΧΦΌ ΧΦ°Χ¨Φ·Χ ΧΧΦΉΧ‘Φ΅Χ£ ΧΦΌΦ΄Χ€Φ°Χ¨Φ΄ΧΧ‘ ΧΦ΅ΧΧΦΌ Χ‘ΧΦΌΧΦΈΧ¨ΦΈΧ ΧΦ·Χ¨Φ΅ΧΧ©ΧΦ΅ΧΧΦΌ ΧΦ°ΧΦΈΧΦ΅ΧΧ ΧΦ°ΧΦΈΧͺΦ΅Χ ΧΦΌΦ°ΧΦ΅ΧΧͺΦ΅ΧΧΦΌ. ΧΦ²ΧΦ·Χ¨ ΧΦ΅ΧΧΦΌ: ΧΦΈΧΧ Χ‘ΦΈΧΦ·Χ¨ ΧΦ·ΧΦΌ ΧΦΈΧ¨ ΧΦ΅ΧΧ ΧΦ²ΧΦ΅ΧΧΧΦΌΧͺ ΧΦΌΦ°Χ©ΧΦ·ΧΦΌΦΈΧͺ? ΧΦ²ΧΦ·Χ¨ ΧΦ΅ΧΧΦΌ, ΧΦΈΧΦ΄Χ ΧΦΈΧΦ·Χ¨ Χ¨Φ·ΧΦΌΦ΄Χ ΧΧΦΉΧΦΈΧ ΦΈΧ: ΧΦΌΦ°ΧΦΈΧ¨Φ΄ΧΧ Χ©ΧΦΆΧΦΌΦ°Χ¦Φ΄ΧΧ Φ°Χ’ΦΈΧ β Χ ΧΦΉΧΦ΅Χ.
Β§ Rava said: A mourner may walk about his house in a torn robe [unkali] on Shabbat, since he is not doing so in public. It was related that Abaye found Rav Yosef walking back and forth in his house on Shabbat when he was in mourning with a scarf spread over his head in the manner of mourning. He said to him: Master, do you not maintain that there is no mourning on Shabbat? He said to him: This is what Rabbi YoαΈ₯anan said: Matters that are in private apply, and so when one is in his house he must observe the rites of mourning even on Shabbat.
Χ¨Φ·ΧΦΌΦ΄Χ ΧΦ±ΧΦ΄ΧΧ’ΦΆΧΦΆΧ¨ ΧΧΦΉΧΦ΅Χ¨: ΧΦ΄Χ©ΦΌΧΦΆΧΦΈΧ¨Φ·Χ ΧΦΌΦ΅ΧΧͺ ΧΦ·ΧΦΌΦ΄Χ§Φ°ΧΦΌΦΈΧ©Χ Χ’Φ²Χ¦ΦΆΧ¨ΦΆΧͺ ΧΦΌΦ·Χ©ΦΌΧΦ·ΧΦΌΦΈΧͺ ΧΦ°ΧΧΦΌΧ³. ΧΦΈΧΦ·Χ¨ Χ¨Φ·Χ ΧΦΌΦ΄ΧΧΦΌΦ΅Χ ΧΦΌΦ·Χ¨ ΧΦ°Χ Φ·Χ©ΦΌΧΦ°ΧΦΈΧ ΧΦΈΧΦ·Χ¨ Χ©ΧΦ°ΧΧΦΌΧΦ΅Χ: ΧΦ²ΧΦΈΧΦΈΧ ΧΦΌΦ°Χ¨Φ·ΧΦΌΦΈΧ ΧΦΌΦ·ΧΦ°ΧΦ΄ΧΧΦ΅Χ.
Β§ The mishna taught: Rabbi Eliezer says: Since the Temple was destroyed, Shavuot is like Shabbat with regard to mourning. Rabban Gamliel says: Even Rosh HaShana and Yom Kippur are considered like Festivals. The Gemara comments that Rav Giddel bar Menashya said that Shmuel said: The halakha is in accordance with the opinion of Rabban Gamliel.
ΧΦ°ΧΦ΄ΧΧΦΌΦΈΧ ΧΦΌΦ°ΧΦ·ΧͺΦ°Χ Φ΅Χ ΧΦ°ΧΦΈΧ ΧΦΌΦ°Χ¨Φ·Χ ΧΦΌΦ΄ΧΧΦΌΦ΅Χ ΧΦΌΦ·Χ¨ ΧΦ°Χ Φ·Χ©ΦΌΧΦ°ΧΦΈΧ ΧΦ·ΧΦΈΧ: ΧΦΌΧΧ Χ©ΧΦ°ΧΦΉΧ©ΧΦ΄ΧΧ ΧΧΦΉΧ, ΧͺΦΌΦ΄ΧΧ ΧΦΉΧ§ ΧΧΦΉΧ¦Φ΅Χ ΧΦΌΦ·ΧΦ΅ΧΧ§, ΧΦ°Χ Φ΄Χ§Φ°ΧΦΌΦΈΧ¨ ΧΦΌΦ°ΧΦ΄Χ©ΦΌΧΦΈΧ ΧΦ·ΧΦ·Χͺ ΧΦΌΧ©ΧΦ°Χ Φ΅Χ ΧΦ²Χ ΦΈΧ©ΧΦ΄ΧΧ. ΧΦ²ΧΦΈΧ ΧΦΉΧ ΧΦΌΦ°ΧΦ΄ΧΧ©Χ ΧΦΆΧΦΈΧ ΧΦΌΧ©ΧΦ°ΧͺΦΌΦ΅Χ Χ ΦΈΧ©ΧΦ΄ΧΧ.
And some teach this ruling of Rav Giddel bar Menashya as referring to the following case: It is taught in a baraita: Within the first thirty days after birth, an infant that dies is taken out for burial in oneβs bosom, that is to say, he is carried to his grave in oneβs arms, not in a coffin. And he is buried by one woman and two men, there being no need for a quorum of ten men. But he should not be taken out by one man and two women, because it is prohibited for one man to seclude himself with two women.
ΧΦ·ΧΦΌΦΈΧ Χ©ΧΦΈΧΧΦΌΧ ΧΧΦΉΧΦ΅Χ¨: ΧΦ·Χ£ ΧΦΌΦ°ΧΦ΄ΧΧ©Χ ΧΦΆΧΦΈΧ ΧΦΌΧ©ΧΦ°ΧͺΦΌΦ΅Χ Χ ΦΈΧ©ΧΦ΄ΧΧ. ΧΦ°ΧΦ΅ΧΧ Χ’ΧΦΉΧΦ°ΧΦ΄ΧΧ Χ’ΦΈΧΦΈΧΧ ΧΦΌΦ°Χ©ΧΧΦΌΧ¨ΦΈΧ. ΧΦ°ΧΦ΅ΧΧ ΧΧΦΉΧΦ°Χ¨Φ΄ΧΧ Χ’ΦΈΧΦΈΧΧ ΧΦΌΦ΄Χ¨Φ°ΧΦΌΦ·Χͺ ΧΦ²ΧΦ΅ΧΦ΄ΧΧ ΧΦ°ΧͺΦ·Χ Φ°ΧΧΦΌΧΦ΅Χ ΧΦ²ΧΦ΅ΧΦ΄ΧΧ.
Abba Shaul says: The infant may be taken out even by one man and two women, for there is no concern with regard to seclusion in a time of mourning. And for such an infant, people do not stand in a line to offer their condolences to the mourners, as is ordinarily done after a burial; nor do others recite over him the mournersβ blessing, which is recited in the courtyard of the graveyard after the burial; nor is the usual formula for the consolation of mourners recited during the seven days of mourning.
ΧΦΌΦΆΧ Χ©ΧΦ°ΧΦΉΧ©ΧΦ΄ΧΧ ΧΧΦΉΧ¦Φ΅Χ ΧΦΌΦ΄ΧΦ°ΧΧΦΉΧ‘Φ°Χ§ΦΈΧΦΈΧ. Χ¨Φ·ΧΦΌΦ΄Χ ΧΦ°ΧΧΦΌΧΦΈΧ ΧΧΦΉΧΦ΅Χ¨: ΧΦΉΧ ΧΦΌΦ°ΧΧΦΉΧ‘Φ°Χ§ΦΈΧΦΈΧ ΧΦ·Χ ΦΌΦ΄ΧΧΦΌΦΆΧΦΆΧͺ ΧΦΌΦ·ΧΦΌΦΈΧͺΦ΅Χ£, ΧΦΆΧΦΌΦΈΧ ΧΦ·Χ ΦΌΦ΄ΧΧΦΌΦΆΧΦΆΧͺ ΧΦΌΦΈΧΦ²ΧΦ·Χ€ΦΌΦ·ΧΦ΄ΧΧ. ΧΦ°Χ’ΧΦΉΧΦ°ΧΦ΄ΧΧ Χ’ΦΈΧΦΈΧΧ ΧΦΌΦ°Χ©ΧΧΦΌΧ¨ΦΈΧ, ΧΦ°ΧΧΦΉΧΦ°Χ¨Φ΄ΧΧ Χ’ΦΈΧΦΈΧΧ ΧΦΌΦ΄Χ¨Φ°ΧΦΌΦ·Χͺ ΧΦ²ΧΦ΅ΧΦ΄ΧΧ ΧΦ°ΧͺΦ·Χ Φ°ΧΧΦΌΧΦ΅Χ ΧΦ²ΧΦ΅ΧΦ΄ΧΧ.
A thirty-day-old infant that dies is taken out for burial in a coffin [deluskema]. Rabbi Yehuda says: Not in a small coffin that is carried on oneβs shoulder, but rather in a coffin that is carried in the arms of two people. And for such an infant, people stand in a line to offer their condolences to the mourners. And others recite the mournersβ blessing at the cemetery. And people recite the consolation of mourners during the week of mourning.
ΧΦΌΦΆΧ Χ©ΧΦ°Χ Φ΅ΧΧ Χ’ΦΈΧ©ΧΦΈΧ¨ ΧΦΉΧΦΆΧ©Χ ΧΧΦΉΧ¦Φ΅Χ ΧΦΌΦ°ΧΦ΄ΧΦΌΦΈΧ. Χ¨Φ·ΧΦΌΦ΄Χ Χ’Φ²Χ§Φ΄ΧΧΦΈΧ ΧΧΦΉΧΦ΅Χ¨: ΧΧΦΌΧ ΧΦΌΦΆΧ Χ©ΧΦΈΧ ΦΈΧ ΧΦ°ΧΦ΅ΧΦΈΧ¨ΦΈΧΧ ΧΦΌΦ°ΧΦΆΧ Χ©ΧΦ°ΧͺΦΌΦ·ΧΦ΄Χ, ΧΧΦΌΧ ΧΦΌΦΆΧ Χ©ΧΦ°ΧͺΦΌΦ·ΧΦ΄Χ ΧΦ°ΧΦ΅ΧΦΈΧ¨ΦΈΧΧ ΧΦΌΦ°ΧΦΆΧ Χ©ΧΦΈΧ ΦΈΧ β ΧΧΦΉΧ¦Φ΅Χ ΧΦΌΦ°ΧΦ΄ΧΦΌΦΈΧ.
A twelve-month-old infant is taken out for burial on a bier, just as an adult is. Rabbi Akiva says: This halakha applies if the infant that dies is one year old and his limbs are like those of a two year old, so that he looks older, or if he is two years old and his limbs are like those of a one-year-old. Only then he is taken out on a bier.
Χ¨Φ·ΧΦΌΦ΄Χ Χ©ΧΦ΄ΧΦ°Χ’ΧΦΉΧ ΧΦΌΦΆΧ ΧΦΆΧΦ°Χ’ΦΈΧΦΈΧ¨ ΧΧΦΉΧΦ΅Χ¨: ΧΦ·ΧΦΌΧΦΉΧ¦Φ΅Χ ΧΦΌΦ°ΧΦ΄ΧΦΌΦΈΧ β Χ¨Φ·ΧΦΌΦ΄ΧΧ ΧΦ·Χ¦Φ°ΧΦ΄ΧΧΦ΄ΧΧ Χ’ΦΈΧΦΈΧΧ. ΧΦ΅ΧΧ ΧΦΉ ΧΧΦΉΧ¦Φ΅Χ ΧΦΌΦ°ΧΦ΄ΧΦΌΦΈΧ β ΧΦ΅ΧΧ Χ¨Φ·ΧΦΌΦ΄ΧΧ ΧΦ·Χ¦Φ°ΧΦ΄ΧΧΦ΄ΧΧ Χ’ΦΈΧΦΈΧΧ. Χ¨Φ·ΧΦΌΦ΄Χ ΧΦΆΧΦ°Χ’ΦΈΧΦΈΧ¨ ΧΦΌΦΆΧ Χ’Φ²ΧΦ·Χ¨Φ°ΧΦΈΧ ΧΧΦΉΧΦ΅Χ¨: Χ Φ΄ΧΧΦΌΦΈΧ¨ ΧΦΈΧ¨Φ·ΧΦΌΦ΄ΧΧ β Χ¨Φ·ΧΦΌΦ΄ΧΧ ΧΦ΄ΧͺΦ°Χ’Φ·Χ‘ΦΌΦ°Χ§Φ΄ΧΧ Χ’Φ΄ΧΦΌΧΦΉ, ΧΦ΅ΧΧ ΧΦΉ Χ Φ΄ΧΧΦΌΦΈΧ¨ ΧΦΈΧ¨Φ·ΧΦΌΦ΄ΧΧ β ΧΦ΅ΧΧ Χ¨Φ·ΧΦΌΦ΄ΧΧ ΧΦ΄ΧͺΦ°Χ’Φ·Χ‘ΦΌΦ°Χ§Φ΄ΧΧ Χ’Φ΄ΧΦΌΧΦΉ.
Rabbi Shimon ben Elazar says: For one that is taken out on a bier, the public should grieve [matzhivin]. For one that is not taken out on a bier, the public need not grieve. Rabbi Elazar ben Azarya says: The halakha is as follows: If the infant was known to the public, because he regularly left the house and many people knew him, the public must occupy themselves with him and participate in his burial. If he was not known to the public, the public need not occupy themselves with him.
ΧΦΌΧΦΈΧ ΧΦ΅Χ ΧΦΌΦ°ΧΦΆΧ‘Φ°Χ€ΦΌΦ΅Χ? Χ¨Φ·ΧΦΌΦ΄Χ ΧΦ΅ΧΦ΄ΧΧ¨ ΧΦΌΦ°Χ©ΧΦ΅Χ Χ¨Φ·ΧΦΌΦ΄Χ ΧΦ΄Χ©ΧΦ°ΧΦΈΧ’Φ΅ΧΧ ΧΧΦΉΧΦ΅Χ¨: Χ’Φ²Χ Φ΄ΧΦΌΦ΄ΧΧ β ΧΦΌΦ°Χ Φ΅Χ Χ©ΧΦΈΧΦΉΧ©Χ, Χ’Φ²Χ©ΧΦ΄ΧΧ¨Φ΄ΧΧ β ΧΦΌΦ°Χ Φ΅Χ ΧΦΈΧΦ΅Χ©Χ. Χ¨Φ·ΧΦΌΦ΄Χ ΧΦ°ΧΧΦΌΧΦΈΧ ΧΧΦΉΧΦ΅Χ¨ ΧΦ΄Χ©ΦΌΧΦ°ΧΧΦΉ: Χ’Φ²Χ Φ΄ΧΦΌΦ΄ΧΧ β ΧΦΌΦ°Χ Φ΅Χ ΧΦΈΧΦ΅Χ©Χ, Χ’Φ²Χ©ΧΦ΄ΧΧ¨Φ΄ΧΧ β ΧΦΌΦ°Χ Φ΅Χ Χ©ΧΦ΅Χ©Χ, ΧΦΌΧΦ°Χ Φ΅Χ ΧΦ°Χ§Φ΅Χ Φ΄ΧΧ β ΧΦΌΦ΄ΧΦ°Χ Φ΅Χ Χ’Φ²Χ Φ΄ΧΦΌΦ΄ΧΧ.
And what is the status of deceased infants with regard to eulogy? Rabbi Meir said in the name of Rabbi Yishmael: The children of the poor are eulogized from the age of three, whereas the children of the wealthy are eulogized from the age of five. This is because a child is the sole source of joy for the poor, and so the pain and grief of the poor over the death of a child is greater than that of the wealthy. Rabbi Yehuda said in the name of Rabbi Yishmael: The children of the poor are eulogized from the age of five, whereas the children of the wealthy are eulogized from the age of six. And the children of the elderly are treated like the children of the poor, for the death of a child is particularly painful for an older person.
ΧΦΈΧΦ·Χ¨ Χ¨Φ·Χ ΧΦΌΦ΄ΧΧΦΌΦ΅Χ ΧΦΌΦ·Χ¨ ΧΦ°Χ Φ·Χ©ΦΌΧΦ°ΧΦΈΧ ΧΦΈΧΦ·Χ¨ Χ¨Φ·Χ: ΧΦ²ΧΦΈΧΦΈΧ ΧΦΌΦ°Χ¨Φ·ΧΦΌΦ΄Χ ΧΦ°ΧΧΦΌΧΦΈΧ Χ©ΧΦΆΧΦΈΧΦ·Χ¨ ΧΦ΄Χ©ΦΌΧΧΦΌΧ Χ¨Φ·ΧΦΌΦ΄Χ ΧΦ΄Χ©ΧΦ°ΧΦΈΧ’Φ΅ΧΧ.
Rav Giddel bar Menashya said that Rav said: The halakha is in accordance with the opinion of Rabbi Yehuda, who stated it in the name of Rabbi Yishmael.
ΧΦΌΦΈΧ¨Φ΅Χ©Χ Χ¨Φ·ΧΦΌΦ΄Χ Χ’Φ²Χ ΦΈΧ Φ΄Χ ΧΦΌΦ·Χ¨ Χ©ΧΦΈΧ©ΧΧΦΉΧ ΧΦ·Χ€ΦΌΦ΄ΧΧͺΦ°ΧΦΈΧ ΧΦΌΦ°ΧΦ΅Χ Χ Φ°Χ©ΧΦ΄ΧΧΦΈΧ: ΧΧΦΉΧ ΧΦΆΧΦΈΧ ΧΦ΄Χ€Φ°Χ Φ΅Χ Χ’Φ²Χ¦ΦΆΧ¨ΦΆΧͺ ΧΦ·Χ’Φ²Χ¦ΦΆΧ¨ΦΆΧͺ β ΧΦ²Χ¨Φ΅Χ ΧΦΌΦΈΧΧ ΧΦ·Χ¨Φ°ΧΦΌΦΈΧ’ΦΈΧ Χ’ΦΈΧ©ΧΦΈΧ¨. Χ©ΧΦ°ΧΦ·Χ’ Χ¨Φ·ΧΦΌΦ΄Χ ΧΦ·ΧΦΌΦ΅Χ ΧΦ°ΧΦ΄ΧΧ§ΦΌΦ°Χ€Φ·Χ, ΧΦ²ΧΦ·Χ¨: ΧΦ·ΧΦΌΧΦΌ ΧΦΌΦ΄ΧΧΦ΅ΧΧΦΌ ΧΦ΄ΧΧ? ΧΦΌΦ°Χ¨Φ·ΧΦΌΦ΄Χ ΧΦΆΧΦ°Χ’ΦΈΧΦΈΧ¨ ΧΦΈΧΦ·Χ¨ Χ¨Φ·ΧΦΌΦ΄Χ ΧΧΦΉΧ©ΧΦ·Χ’Φ°ΧΦΈΧ ΧΦ΄ΧΧ!
Rabbi Anani bar Sason taught at the entrance to the house of the Nasi: If one suffered the loss of a close relative shortly before the festival of Shavuot, his one day of mourning before Shavuot and Shavuot itself together count as fourteen days. The day before the Festival counts as seven full days of mourning because the Festival interrupts the seven-day period of mourning, and the Festival itself is counted as a seven-day Festival. Even though it is a one-day Festival, it is counted as seven days because it has the same halakha as the other Festivals. After Shavuot, then, only sixteen days are left to complete the thirty-day mourning period. Rabbi Ami heard this and became angry with him. He said: Is that to say that it is his own opinion? It is the opinion that Rabbi Elazar said that Rabbi Oshaya said.
ΧΦΌΦ°Χ¨Φ·Χ©Χ Χ¨Φ·ΧΦΌΦ΄Χ ΧΦ΄Χ¦Φ°ΧΦΈΧ§ Χ Φ·Χ€ΦΌΦΈΧΦΈΧ ΧΦ·Χ§ΦΌΦ΄ΧΧΦ°Χ’ΦΈΧ ΧΦΌΦ°Χ¨Φ΅ΧΧ©Χ ΧΦΌΦΈΧΧΦΌΧͺΦΈΧ: ΧΧΦΉΧ ΧΦΆΧΦΈΧ ΧΦ΄Χ€Φ°Χ Φ΅Χ Χ’Φ²Χ¦ΦΆΧ¨ΦΆΧͺ ΧΦ·Χ’Φ²Χ¦ΦΆΧ¨ΦΆΧͺ β ΧΦ²Χ¨Φ΅Χ ΧΦΌΦΈΧΧ ΧΦ·Χ¨Φ°ΧΦΌΦΈΧ’ΦΈΧ Χ’ΦΈΧ©ΧΦΈΧ¨. Χ©ΧΦ°ΧΦ·Χ’ Χ¨Φ·Χ Χ©ΧΦ΅Χ©ΧΦΆΧͺ ΧΦ΄ΧΧ§ΦΌΦ°Χ€Φ·Χ, ΧΦΈΧΦ·Χ¨: ΧΦ·ΧΦΌΧΦΌ ΧΦΌΦ΄ΧΧΦ΅ΧΧΦΌ ΧΦ΄ΧΧ? ΧΦΌΦ°Χ¨Φ·ΧΦΌΦ΄Χ ΧΦΆΧΦ°Χ’ΦΈΧΦΈΧ¨ ΧΦΈΧΦ·Χ¨ Χ¨Φ·ΧΦΌΦ΄Χ ΧΧΦΉΧ©ΧΦ·Χ’Φ°ΧΦΈΧ ΧΦ΄ΧΧ!
Similarly Rabbi YitzαΈ₯ak NappaαΈ₯a taught in the pavilion [kila] of the Exilarch: If oneβs relative died shortly before the festival of Shavuot, his one day of mourning before Shavuot and Shavuot itself count as fourteen days. Rav Sheshet heard and became angry. He said: Is that to say that it is his own opinion? It is the opinion that Rabbi Elazar said that Rabbi Oshaya said.
ΧΦΌΦ°ΧΦΈΧΦ·Χ¨ Χ¨Φ·ΧΦΌΦ΄Χ ΧΦΆΧΦ°Χ’ΦΈΧΦΈΧ¨ ΧΦΈΧΦ·Χ¨ Χ¨Φ·ΧΦΌΦ΄Χ ΧΧΦΉΧ©ΧΦ·Χ’Φ°ΧΦΈΧ: ΧΦ΄Χ ΦΌΦ·ΧΦ΄Χ ΧΦΈΧ’Φ²Χ¦ΦΆΧ¨ΦΆΧͺ Χ©ΧΦΆΧΦΌΦ΅Χ©Χ ΧΦΈΧΦΌ ΧͺΦΌΦ·Χ©ΧΦ°ΧΧΦΌΧΦ΄ΧΧ ΧΦΌΧΧ Χ©ΧΦ΄ΧΦ°Χ’ΦΈΧ β Χ©ΧΦΆΧ ΦΌΦΆΧΦ±ΧΦ·Χ¨: Χ΄ΧΦΌΦ°ΧΦ·Χ ΧΦ·ΧΦΌΦ·Χ¦ΦΌΧΦΉΧͺ ΧΦΌΧΦ°ΧΦ·Χ ΧΦ·Χ©ΦΌΧΦΈΧΧΦΌΧ’ΧΦΉΧͺΧ΄, ΧΦΈΧ ΧΦ·Χ ΧΦ·ΧΦΌΦ·Χ¦ΦΌΧΦΉΧͺ ΧΦ΅Χ©Χ ΧΦΈΧΦΌ ΧͺΦΌΦ·Χ©ΧΦ°ΧΧΦΌΧΦ΄ΧΧ ΧΦΌΧΧ Χ©ΧΦ΄ΧΦ°Χ’ΦΈΧ β ΧΦ·Χ£ ΧΦ·Χ ΧΦ·Χ©ΦΌΧΦΈΧΧΦΌΧ’ΧΦΉΧͺ ΧΦ΅Χ©Χ ΧΦΈΧΦΌ ΧͺΦΌΦ·Χ©ΧΦ°ΧΧΦΌΧΦ΄ΧΧ ΧΦΌΧΧ Χ©ΧΦ΄ΧΦ°Χ’ΦΈΧ.
In both of these cases, a Sage presented an opinion as their own, without attributing it to the original Sage who stated it, for Rabbi Elazar said that Rabbi Oshaya said: From where is it derived that the Shavuot offerings have redress all seven subsequent days? That is to say, if someone failed to bring the Festival offering on the Festival itself, he has six more days to bring it. As it is stated: βThree times a year shall all your males appear before the Lord your God in the place that He shall choose; on the festival of Passover, and on the festival of Shavuot, and on the festival of Sukkotβ (Deuteronomy 16:16). Just as the offerings of the festival of Passover have redress all seven days, as Passover is seven days long, so too the offerings of the festival of Shavuot have redress all seven days, during the week following Shavuot. From this we learn that Shavuot is treated like a seven-day Festival for all halakhic purposes.
ΧΦ·ΧΦ°ΧΦΌΦ°Χ¨Φ΅ΧΧΦΌ Χ¨Φ·Χ Χ€ΦΌΦΈΧ€ΦΌΦΈΧ ΧΦ°Χ¨Φ·Χ ΧΦ·ΧΦ°ΧΦΈΧ Χ‘ΦΈΧΦΈΧ ΧΦΌΧΦ°Χ¨Φ·Χ©Χ: ΧΧΦΉΧ ΧΦΆΧΦΈΧ ΧΦ΄Χ€Φ°Χ Φ΅Χ Χ¨ΦΉΧΧ©Χ ΧΦ·Χ©ΦΌΧΦΈΧ ΦΈΧ ΧΦ°Χ¨ΦΉΧΧ©Χ ΧΦ·Χ©ΦΌΧΦΈΧ ΦΈΧ β ΧΦ²Χ¨Φ΅Χ ΧΦΌΦΈΧΧ ΧΦ·Χ¨Φ°ΧΦΌΦΈΧ’ΦΈΧ Χ’ΦΈΧ©ΧΦΈΧ¨. ΧΦΈΧΦ·Χ¨ Χ¨ΦΈΧΦ΄ΧΧ ΦΈΧ, ΧΦ΄ΧΦ°ΧΦΌΦΈΧΦ°: ΧΧΦΉΧ ΧΦΆΧΦΈΧ ΧΦ΄Χ€Φ°Χ Φ΅Χ ΧΦΆΧΦΈΧ, ΧΦ°ΧΦ·Χ, ΧΦΌΧ©ΧΦ°ΧΦ΄ΧΧ Φ΄Χ Χ©ΧΦΆΧΦΌΧΦΉ β ΧΦ²Χ¨Φ΅Χ ΧΦΌΦΈΧΧ Χ’ΦΆΧ©ΧΦ°Χ¨Φ΄ΧΧ ΧΦ°ΧΦΆΧΦΈΧ ΧΧΦΉΧ.
Rav Pappa granted permission to Rav Avya the Elder to speak and he taught the following in public: If oneβs relative died shortly before Rosh HaShana, his one day of mourning before Rosh HaShana and Rosh HaShana itself together count as fourteen days, because Rosh HaShana is treated like a seven-day Festival. Ravina said: Therefore, if oneβs relative died shortly before Sukkot, his one day of mourning before the Festival of Sukkot, and the Festival of Sukkot itself, which is seven days, and its Eighth day of Assembly, which is considered to be a separate Festival, count as twenty-one days, and he must observe only nine more days of mourning to complete the thirty-day period of mourning.
Χ¨ΦΈΧΦ΄ΧΧ ΦΈΧ ΧΦ΄ΧΧ§ΦΌΦ°ΧΦ·Χ’ ΧΦ°Χ‘ΧΦΌΧ¨ΦΈΧ ΧΦ΄Χ€Φ°Χ¨ΦΈΧͺ, ΧΦ²ΧΦ·Χ¨ ΧΦ΅ΧΧΦΌ Χ¨Φ·Χ ΧΦ²ΧΦ΄ΧΧΦΈΧ ΧΦ΄Χ‘ΦΌΧΦΌΧ¨ΦΈΧ ΧΦ΄Χ€Φ°Χ¨ΦΈΧͺ ΧΦ°Χ¨ΦΈΧΦ΄ΧΧ ΦΈΧ: ΧΦΈΧΦ·Χ¨ ΧΦΈΧ¨, ΧΧΦΉΧ ΧΦΆΧΦΈΧ ΧΦ΄Χ€Φ°Χ Φ΅Χ Χ¨ΦΉΧΧ©Χ ΧΦ·Χ©ΦΌΧΦΈΧ ΦΈΧ ΧΦ°Χ¨ΦΉΧΧ©Χ ΧΦ·Χ©ΦΌΧΦΈΧ ΦΈΧ β ΧΦ²Χ¨Φ΅Χ ΧΦΌΦΈΧΧ ΧΦ·Χ¨Φ°ΧΦΌΦΈΧ’ΦΈΧ Χ’ΦΈΧ©ΧΦΈΧ¨? ΧΦ²ΧΦ·Χ¨ ΧΦ΅ΧΧΦΌ: ΧΦ²Χ ΦΈΧ, ΧΦ΄Χ‘Φ°ΧͺΦΌΦ·ΧΦΌΦ°Χ¨ΦΈΧ ΧΦΌΦ°Χ¨Φ·ΧΦΌΦΈΧ ΧΦΌΦ·ΧΦ°ΧΦ΄ΧΧΦ΅Χ ΧΧΦΌΧ ΧΦΌΦ°ΧΦΈΧΦ΅ΧΧ ΦΈΧ.
It was related that Ravina happened to come to the city of Sura on the Euphrates River. Rav αΈ€aviva from Sura on the Euphrates said to Ravina: Did the Master say that one day of mourning before Rosh HaShana and Rosh HaShana itself count as fourteen days? He said to him: I said that it stands to reason that this is so according to Rabban Gamliel, who maintains that Rosh HaShana is treated like a pilgrim Festival. But I did not rule in accordance with this opinion.
ΧΦ·ΧͺΦ°Χ Φ΄ΧΧ³ ΧΦ΅ΧΧ Χ§ΧΦΉΧ¨Φ°Χ’Φ΄ΧΧ ΧΦ°ΧΦΉΧ ΧΧΦΉΧΦ°Χ¦Φ΄ΧΧ ΧΦ°ΧΦ΅ΧΧ ΧΦ·ΧΦ°Χ¨Φ΄ΧΧ ΧΦΆΧΦΌΦΈΧ Χ§Φ°Χ¨ΧΦΉΧΦΈΧΧ Χ©ΧΦΆΧ ΧΦ΅Χͺ, ΧΦ°ΧΦ΅ΧΧ ΧΦ·ΧΦ°Χ¨Φ΄ΧΧ ΧΦΆΧΦΌΦΈΧ Χ’Φ·Χ ΧΦ΄ΧΦΌΦΈΧ ΧΦ°Χ§ΧΦΌΧ€ΦΈΧ.
MISHNA: Mourners do not rend their garments during the intermediate days of a Festival and do not remove their garments from their shoulders. And others do not provide them with a meal [mavrin] after the burial, except for close relatives of the deceased. And the consolers provide the first meal after the burial only while the mourner is sitting on an upright bed, and not on one that is overturned.